30.3.15

spankster thoughts on positions to be caned

A new place for Ronnie to shop...
some eagerly accept the cane, and ask for more
and as Ronnie would say
so many wonderful positions in which to make a spankee's feet dance
the look on this lady shows trepidation
resignation
so many beautiful bottoms
 so endearing to cane
but only reasonably
 this table looks perfect
 and the cane does get a person's attention, Q|UICKLY!
and your daily smile
 whereas if I was going to run...
bottoms up
Red

27.3.15

The other request from a reader [Booker (Part B)]

This is what Booker wrote:

Hey Red, Thanks for posting part A.  It worked!  After she and I talk things over some more, maybe I'll post about it or add a comment to your post.  How about part B, the part about holding still:

I've been spanked a few times with a hair brush or bath brush, but never enough, because I always wimp out.  And I feel stupid asking for more later on.  Sitting here typing, I want to ask for a thorough paddling and she shouldn't let me wimp out any more, make sure I'm sorry I asked for it.  I know there are some things she's angry about, and I bet she'd be glad to whale my ass.  But I think that before it starts to hurt very much, I'll want her to stop, or I'll get up.  How can she hold me down or talk me into holding still for a real one?  

My Answer: 
Firstly, I think the myth and the reality of being spanked are highly different, specially in your case.
I love everything about the spanking scene, the before being spanked, the retrieving implements, the baring one's bottom, the getting over the knee or into whatever position Cindy wants, and the aftermath of the warm, or hot, or sore bottom. However, while being spanked, if I have time to think, I wonder why I ever wanted this, but most times my mind goes blank and the fire of the spanks totally focuses my mind on the  spanks, and hoping it will end soon,, or simply owwing and feet dancing as a reaction to lessen the pain.

Your wife does not want to hurt you, so when you wimp out, she is willing to stop. THAT IS HOW IT SHOULD BE. THIS IS CONSENSUAL! YOU SHOULD HAVE A "SAFE WORD", AND UNLESS YOU SAY IT, YOU CAN DISCUSS WITH HER THAT SHE SHOULD SIMPLY KEEP SPANKING UNTIL SHE IS SATISFIED THAT YOU HAVE RECEIVED THE PUNISHMENT SO AS YOU WILL CHANGE YOUR WAYS!

ANY AND ALL READERS SUGGESTIONS ARE WELCOME 

Two positions, and obvious variations of these are readily available to keep you in place, but in reality, you should focus your thoughts on staying in place. Most people are never spanked to tears, as that is an emotional reaction, so I hope that is not what you are looking for.

Possibility one
a variation
or
 possibility two: the leg lock
This lets your feet kick as much as they want, you are not getting away
 a hand on your side is a reminder not to try and slip off the side of her knees
 To make the spanking more intense, your wife should stop after a while, but keep you in position, allowing you a little time to recover,a dn then begin again... This method of stopping and starting is very effective

AND TO HAVE A WEE SMILE
IF THE SPANKING IS NOT UP TO YOUR STANDARDS, PLEASE LOWER YOUR STANDARDS.  The intensity of spankings will evolve over time.
bottoms up
Red

26.3.15

Hititng the road again

Just a short post to let you know this blog will not be monitored for two weeks, as we are off seeing the world.
remember
I have left many posts, but cannot reply to your comments until after we are home.
 enjoy
bottoms up
Red

25.3.15

An actual Archie magazine

I used to purchase Archie magazines in my youth, and this was actually in one edition
I wonder what effect this had on impressionable young people like ourselves?
AHHHH! the good old days
bottoms up
Red

24.3.15

adventurous tuesdays; crossdressing

This is a post of photos that some readers can relate to, and others shake their head asking why? I wander the tumblr road, and find various items that I find different enough to pique my interest, and these are those I found for this post. i have worn panties at times, and liked it.
I believe we are all different, and if it does not do harm, then everyone who desires this should have the fun of  trying it.  
Maybe it is the wife who says: out of the blue.. would you say NO!!! ?
or it could just be
and if you said yes
another possible scene

whereas it could be the husband asking, and the wife answering
 
 The reality exists, and even in the spanking world. This photo comes from www.DreamsofSpanking.com , so obviously they feel there is at least a small market for this fantasy.
this was one of the first photos I found maybe ten years ago, and I am cleaning my hard drive, either using a photo, or deleting them
 of course, men have worn skirts for a  long time
and everyone, EVERYONE
so, some husbands might say to their wife, please try this once and we can see if we like it
so, enjoy life, and any night could be a Halloween party
bottoms up
Red

23.3.15

dancing feet during a spanking

A question: if you are OTK, 
do your feet dance while you are being spanked?
I know that mine start a merry jig
when the intensity
of the spanking ramps up
shrinkage does occur
only the spanker can smile for the camera
The man's attention is focussed elsewhere
I doubt that any pattern exists as to a relationship of which foot is highest when a specific cheek is spanked!
But many times, musical accompaniment is provided by the spankee
so, if it is consensual, may you be dancing soon
bottoms up
Red

22.3.15

mirrors

Mirror mirror on the wall, whose bottom is the reddest of all
mirrors are wonderful
as are selfies
lovely
 Both men and women like to look at their own spanked bottom
and sometimes, their might even be some Bondage involved, as her hands seem to be held from above, as the photogrpaher hides himself almost successfully from the picture
a mirror is perfect to show the person awaiting their spanking in position
But, by far the best is:
The beauty of a mirror in that you can both see her face as the spank lands, and her bottom whenever you want to gaze in the mirror.
Have you ever watched yourself in a mirror while you are being spanked?

bottoms up
Red