Writing a blog has helped me connect with similar minded people, and seeing their normal every day life, with a little spanking to add some extra spice. Most women and men spanking bloggers are spanked, and enjoy it, although not necessarily while the spanking is occurring. Women, however, are more willing to share their everyday thoughts and adventures, which is great to read. Somehow, I am shy about writing that, but not about writing about my spankings.
If you visit a blog occasionally, PLEASE leave a short message thanking the person for their efforts, even if you are not currently in a spanking relationship.
I am uncertain whose drawing this is, but if they would let me know I will link to their site, or remove it if they desire it to be removed.
Thus, I always recommend: to anyone who might be leaving a comment to:
create a secondary email account, from a site that you never use except for spanking related messages,
do not use any data that is real when creating that account,
never save a user name or password on your computer for this account
and always use a specific browser that you normally do not use, and use it incognito if possible.
with the prevalence of computers on your phone, this becomes more troublesome, so maybe turn off the suggestion mode so that accidently someone does not see what pops up.
You can always post as anonymous, but with fiction writers using anonymous, your comment might not appear, unless it rings true... One unfortunate person keeps wanting to write about his fantasies, instead of going out and living life.
and always smile
I believe a list of spanking bloggers that are posting "love our Lurkers" can be found on Hermione's blog http://hermionesheart.blogspot.com